May 15, 2023Poem

Memories make us

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Memories make us

Their loss brings death

In life

Nobody wants that

Tolerance levels are lower

For the incontinent incompetent

Struggling for recall

Plucking memories out of a fruit bowl

Throwing them away,

Slipping on a banana skin

How do you like those apples?

The bicycle sheds were soaked

In testosterone

The smell of adolescent emissions

Tobacco and dirty stories

Failing to get a punchline

Refusing to be a punchbag

Winning a fight, fight, fight

When you didn’t want to do it

In the first place

The first kiss

On the spin of a bottle

Blushing right down to the ground

Touching teeth

Promising to learn

How to do it properly

Never being given another chance

By her

Forgetting her name.

Learning to dance

Like a wallflower.

The first girl to say “no”

Walking away feeling two feet tall

Promising never to mistake no for yes.

Learning never to break a promise

Especially to a child.

The best advice is to never make one.

Children never forget

But they do forgive.

Treat everybody with respect

Even the people you dislike

It will reap dividends,

In the end,

People will remember

You as an honest broker.

The first kiss

Whilst sitting in a Ford Fiesta

When the brush of her lips

Was electrifying.

Direct current is unbreakable

Unless you switch it off

The smell of her neck

The small of her back.

The view across from Bamburgh

To Lindisfarne

Seahouses in the rain

The way a Grey Seal looks

At you

When you come face to face

And for some reason, you apologise

For the culling

When you would never do it.

Ever.

Failing to kill a fish when

As a kid, you caught one

Throwing it back

Hoping it would survive

Vowing never to go fishing again

And realising you would starve

In the event of a real apocalypse

When the only apocalyptic thing

We ever truly face

Is to lose the people we love

And then,

Worse still,

To forget them.