November 25, 2020Missive

They used to talk about it

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They used to talk about it

Before that last time

When he seemed to lose patience

Threw a tantrum

Walked into the night

Stayed out until the sun came up

She sat by the fire

Watching the kettle boil

Until the water dried

Took it off then

Using a piece of an old towel

Torn up to make kitchen rags

Sometimes he just looked at her

With that sullen vacant expression

He adopted when not really there

She didn’t know where he was

But he looked as lonely as the

Old scarecrow

Standing there all by itself

Up in the top field

Where nothing had grown

In the past five years

She knew he wanted to talk

But had lost his voice

Somewhere over by the churchyard

Under the angry looking Yew

Where they had all stood

In a circle around the hole

In the ground

Whilst the minister,

With the glass eye

And breath that smelled of camphor,

(Who she thought took a dram)

Said those awful words

Nobody ever wanted to hear

Who really cares about ashes and dust

She wanted her son

She missed her husband

How could she talk to him now

He had said enough was enough

But she knew it wasn’t

If it was, he would stay home

He would hold her

Like he used to do

Before he felt guilty about being alive

As if it was his fault the baby died

When she knew in her heart

It was something about her

If only she had done something more

Rested a little

Stopped working so hard

Realised the rash the little tyke had was serious

Hadn’t listened to the doctor

What did he know anyway

He was a bachelor,

Confirmed,

She thought he might even be past retirement

By now

He said it was nothing

Two days later

The baby died

How could that be anybody’s

Fault but hers

She was the mother, his mother

How could a father know how that feels

How could she tell him

When he walked away

Every time they got too close

To saying something meaningful

Sometimes even being in the same room

Felt like it was too much

She could feel the heat radiating off him

Enough to toast bread

Hot enough to blister skin

That’s when he shook his head

The light went out of him and he walked out

She wasn’t sure how much longer

She could take it

So much pain, too much anger

Perhaps there was no way back

For them now

Perhaps they were already dead

In which case

There was nothing left to be said

Enough was enough

They were done

Although she wasn’t quite ready for that

Not yet.